常在思考一个问题：为什么教会里年轻的弟兄姐妹分分合合得如此频繁？当我读到下面一段真实记载的时候，我似乎找到了一些答案，因为我们fall in love的时候常常不是带着责任进去的，而是凭自己的喜好，为着自己的益处，至少有一方是如此．所以呼吁弟兄姐妹们在你们决定恋爱的时候，请负上爱的责任．

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我有一次到一个很大的教会讲道，讲完道教会有聚餐，聚餐的时候我看好多小孩子跑来跑去．这么多小孩跑来跑去的时候，我看见对面有一个姊妹在吃饭，大概四十几岁，我想她大概有孩子吧！这么多孩子总有她的吧？

我就问她说：＂ＸＸ姊妹，请问你有几个孩子？＂

没有想到这一问啊！她吃的饭刚好嘴巴里面梗住了，一梗就突然说不出话来，然后说：＂吴弟兄，我没有儿子．＂

我听了以后很难过，我说：＂啊呀！不好意思，如果知道你没有孩子的话，我就不应该来问你啊！＂

她说：＂你问的好，我为什么没有儿子？＂

她的先生在旁边，她说：＂我认识我的先生的时候，他18岁， 我17岁，我们已经相爱，在 神面前有约，要一起来事奉神；但文革到了，因为文革的缘故，男朋友被抓到监狱里面去，一被抓进去，问题来了，为了信仰缘故被抓进去，留下我一个女孩子．因为我长得很漂亮，很多人来提亲，我在挣扎，挣扎说他被抓到监狱里面去，到底会关个5年、8年、10年？或许永远不出来，或是死在里面；哪知道他将来会有什么保证．但我放弃自己可以跟外面的机会，我想，我跟他已经有感情，我们已经有约，他在监狱里面很孤单，我不可以在外面另起炉灶；那我做什么呢？写信、祷告、探访，1年、 2年、3年、5年、10年、20年，文革之后他被放出来，过了生产年龄我们才结婚。＂

非常感人的爱，『捆绑的爱』，她捆绑自己，为了所爱的人的难关帮助他，因此宁可等，等1年、2年、5年、10年；即便将来没有保证，这就是上帝的爱。

新西兰发现恐龙？！（有录象）
http://njbbs.soufun.com/%C2%A5%CA%D0%BB%B0%CC%E2~-1/976407_976407.htm

A letter from Father to you, pls read it:
http://www.bittybitznpieces.com/FathersLoveLetter~.htm

I've made a dicision to make a goal in my career to achieve in three years. I really thank Father, he gives me a heart for the children from age 2 to 12. I just started my educational carrer, and I have just a little conception about education, but I know clearly Father wants me to have his truth on it. For kids from age 2 to 6, I should have the wisdom to help them set up good charactors, which will benefit them whole life. Though it's still not free to share the Good News to kids in kindergarten, I hope dear Dad provide me wise way to do that, but the most important thing is my life can be a good example, and also a sound preach. Now I also can touch the children from 7 to 12. I found the older they are, the more difficult to correct their behavior. Recently I read a few books about how to help students who lag behind others in their lessons to have interest in studying. I think it's practical. So maybe it will be my destination to have a try.
In one word, I hope I can be a little expert of education three years later. Pray for me, thank you! I hope we can share more about that if you have interest on that!     

When my dear lover told me, " I have a prayer before the Lord: please keep me faithful to my mate and my marriage in my whole life.", I was so moved. How thankful to my dear Father provide me such faithful partner!